Advice for a torn mind

[Dr_K]

Hello everyone, I'm posting here because I am currently a month or two shy of 18 years, and for a couple years now, the military has been a very large portion of what I see myself doing. So, I have been trying to gather as much information as I can from as many people as I can so that when I am ready, I can make an informed decision. What I would like from all of you, is advice. For a while, I was extremely interested in the Army, but (and I mean no offense to anyone associated or partial to the Army) I've found from several sources that the grunts over in the Army have a really rough time. an example is of course, being stop-lost. Also, I have heard that the Army does not treat it's soldiers well at all, as more of just objects than actual people. I know that in truth, a soldier is essentially a weapon, but there is the factor of taking care of family that concerns me with the Army. That is why I have now come to look at the Marines. Do Marines have to put up with this kind of stuff? What are some reasons why the Marines would NOT be appealing? Is the experience(s) worth the risk/problems? I would love any input, because I truly need to know every side before I sign myself away. I know every reason why the Marines are good, but I really need to know the truth about what the worst things about them are. Excluding the possibility of loss of life/limb. Thank you guys for the input, any little bit helps me move toward a better decision.

[NRTrackChamp2004]

are you trying to be a grunt?

No matter what, I'ma tell you to join the Marine Corps. Unless Army is still handing out large bonuses and you'd like some cash. But, if they're not, join the Marines and join the elite fighting force above all others.

First off I will tell you I know nothing about the grunt lifestyle personally, but, both my neighbors are grunts, along with some other friends, so I do have a decent idea. Are you looking do make a career out of the military? If you are, going infantry is not the best idea. The rigorious lifestyle will take a toll on your body, and you could end up with a very hurt body that will last your whole life. If you just wanna do 4 years and get out, go infantry. You'll do things and see things that most people cant and wont ever get the chance to see and do. You'll have more crazy experiences as a grunt than any other MOS. And its not just the work you do, its the people you're with.

Also, I dont know any grunt that loves their job. They all hate it. They might love what they do and all, and talk shit to others (POGS) because we don't do what they do, but, at the end of the day, most hate their job and the lifestyle it brings.

Do you have a wife or girlfriend. If you do, going infantry will be hard. Especially if you have a wife. You'll constantly be out in the field for weeks at a time. Doing night ops, night hikes. Your wife wont see you as much as she'd like. But, if you're single, then you're all good.

Honestly, I think the military is the best choice right now, especially with the way the economy is. Yeah, it might be looking a tad bit better right now. But, its not guaranteed to continue, nor do I think its going to be back to good atleast for another couple of years. Joining the military you have a good stable job, guaranteed pay, and decent benefits. And especially with you being 18, joining the military, it'll help build your character. I'm all for the military, and definitely join the Marine Corps, because theres nothing better than great comradery in the Marine Corps!

[Sgt4341]

You need to be asking some different questions before you legitimately arrive at the impass you see yourself at right now.

1) Why do I want to join the military? Sense of duty? Love of country? A challege? School money? Any money? Bragging rights? Uniforms are fun? Pick up chicks?

2) Based on the answer to that first question, you'll know where you fit.

If you are worried about being treated with respect, dignity and making friends, then go to college and come back as an officer. As a boot Marine you will be treated like you don't know anything and you are just a cog in a machine that is bigger than you. I'm not saying that's bad, it's just a fact. But, people who love this country, want a challenge and want to be the best Marines and Americans they can be.

I've been in the Corps for 7years and loved every minute...I'm happy to answer any questions you have, but you need to get your head right...

[coachreese]

Poolie,

Honestly, any of us can tell you about the ups and downs about what we go through, have gone through, and will go through as Marines. What we can not convey to you is how you'll be able to handle it. The coolest thing I'll ever remember from P.I. is, they always said, "This is not the fleet." I say that because, no matter what MOS you choose, the training is just what it sounds like. It's how you take in ALL the knowledge and gear it towards a positive career. I can't say, come on buddy, you type as though you'll be the best Marine since Opha Mae. And I can't tell you you'll suck. Everything your decisions is weighing down on is exactly what you make it. What I will share with you is, no matter where you go in life, or what you do, always take to it with a business mentality. The Jr Marines I work with have lost that sense, and it's killing them daily. They can't understand why it's so hard for them to get simple shit right. All you need, especially in the military is an attitude that shows you're where you want to be. Getting advice is awesome, but know that your life is only yours. What is guaranteed is, ain't nobody going nowhere. Take your time!

Semper Fi