In thinking of Mother's Day we are reminded of the unique challenges that face military Moms. This is a story told by the husband of one special military Mom about how she braved the near-loss of their son and helped him cope with seeing their boy come home gravely wounded.

Their son, Marine veteran Kyle Carpenter, was awarded the Medal of Honor for smothering a live grenade tossed by enemy forces to save a buddy during combat in 2010 in Afghanistan. He suffered severe injuries throughout his body, including his face and right arm. He lost his right eye. His father, Jim Carpenter, provided an audience at a recent charity event for the Fisher House Foundation with a glimpse at how loved ones endure such a terrible trial. His wife, Robin, was at his side as he spoke of seeing his son, in a coma, for the first time after he was wounded. And he told of how it was a mother's love that provided healing strength for Kyle — and for him.

Here's a portion of his comments:

You will not find any stronger advocates of the Fisher House than Robin and I. Everywhere we go, we're always touting the Fisher House because, honestly, we lived in it for almost two and a half years — so we know firsthand the benefits and what it does for the families and the service members out there.

When Kyle finally arrived from Germany on that Sunday night, he came off that ambulance and I did not get a chance to see him. They took him up to ICU and, I don't' know, several hours up in the wee hours of the morning — two, three 3 o'clock — we finally got a chance to see him

I could not deal with it, I mean that was not my son lying there, that was not Kyle and it devastated me to no end and I had to be escorted out of the room. The nurses took me out. They didn't take me out of ICU — they took me all the way out into the hallway. They put me in daddy's time out. I was a basket case, all right?

But, I never will forget looking back as I left the room and Robin was up over that bed rail leaning down over Kyle and whispering to him.  And I'm sure she was whispering to him, you know, "Hey, Mama's here – it's going to be OK. Everything is going to be all right."

And, you know, Mama makes everything OK. We know that. And that was the beginning of his healing. Just as important as healing those shattered bones and broken and torn and burned skin is the emotional and mental healing as well. That's just as important. And that was started right there.

 And I couldn't go into his room, until that Wednesday, until she finally made me go in there. And he knew we were there, deep in that coma — that, when she talked to him you could tell that his heart would go up on that monitor.

Father, Jim Carpenter comforts Lance Cpl. Kyle Carpenter early in his recovery at then-Bethesda Naval Medical Hospital in December 2010.

Jim Carpenter comforts his son, Lance Cpl. Kyle Carpenter early in his recovery.

Photo Credit: via DoD

I finally went in there and I stayed on the edge of his bed a couple of days and I finally made my way up to the bed; I mean it was that difficult for me. But God made her strong for him until I had the strength to go in there.

Note: Kyle Carpenter was not at the event. He was busy taking final exams at the University of South Carolina.

To view a story on Kyle's letters home, go here: https://www.dvidshub.net/video/342374/kyle-carpenter-letters-full-video#.Vyu3d_krL4c

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