Q: I'm a World War II veteran, and I find myself wondering about our country's newest group of veterans. It seems like they are always talking about some disorder they have because of combat. Does our current generation of vets have more psychological problems than those of us from previous wars?

Your question is a tough one. My short and honest answer is, "I don't think so." The research comparing the rate of psychological conditions between different wars is sparse. But,​ the information we do have seems to show that the rates of psychiatric ailments are fairly consistent between conflicts.

What makes it seem like our current veterans are battling more psychological problems may be a matter of awareness. Veterans, and the public at large, are more informed about conditions such as post-traumatic stress disorder. They understand that depression, anxiety, and alcohol and drug abuse can be consequences of extended and multiple deployments. 

Increased awareness is likely only one part of the equation. Related to awareness, anti-stigma campaigns that focus on encouraging veterans to seek help leads to more veterans getting care. This does not mean that Iraq and Afghanistan veterans have more problems than those from Desert Storm, Korea, Vietnam or World War II. It's a matter of it being made easier and more acceptable for them to ask for help.


What I do know for sure is that the bond between veterans, regardless of which conflict they fought in, is one of the strongest bonds that can occur between groups. Veterans from all eras have much to teach and share with others.

Q: I retired from the Navy last year. Although I look back on my service with pride, I find myself hoping that my 8-year-old son doesn't want to join the military when he's older. I know it's hypocritical, but it's how I feel. Is this wrong?

It's not a matter of right or wrong. It makes sense if a veteran looks back on his career and wells up with pride with the thought of his son or daughter serving. It's also perfectly acceptable for a parent to reflect on how difficult and dangerous military service can be and not want that for a child.

My recommendation is to find comfort in the fact that the choice is the child's. And if you've done your best as a parent, then you've given your child what he or she needs to make the best choice for their life. Beyond that, you're just trying to control someone else's future. That never turns out well!

Bret A. Moore, Psy.D., is a board-certified clinical psychologist who served two tours in Iraq. Email him at kevlarforthemind@militarytimes.com. This column is for informational purposes only and is not intended to convey specific psychological or medical guidance.

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