In the speech, Khan charged that Trump has promoted anti-Muslim policies and has sacrificed "nothing and no one" for America. Trump has attacked Khan in the media since then, suggesting he is being used as a political pawn doesn’t understand the real issues at hand.
Vaughn said she and other families in the Florida meeting sympathize with Khan, but also feel the ensuing media coverage has overshadowed more important issues for their community.
She accused those
supporting Trump's rival, Democratic presidential nominee Hillary Clinton, of exaggerating those comments in an effort to cover her own national security shortfalls. Vaughn also lamented
what she see as insensitivity toward
an insensitive reaction to
the families of several Americans killed in the 2012 terrorist attack on U.S. diplomatic
facilities in Benghazi, Libya. Clinton was secretary of State at that time, and she has come under intense scrutiny for what her critics say was gross miscalculation and inaction as the attack occurred.
"This is a media issue that has been blown out of proportion," she said. "We want to talk about the things our husbands, fathers and sons died for.
"So we had a substantive conversation, and I feel like he understands if he becomes commander in chief, these are the kinds of decisions and results he’ll have to deal with."
said several family members in the event were connected to Operation 300, a charity that she
helped found in 2012 to benefit the children of fallen troops. While thanking the attendees for the meeting, Trump agreed to make a donation to that group.
Veterans groups and several prominent Republican leaders have pushed Trump to apologize for the public fight with Khan, but Vaughn said she did not think any such move is needed.
"As a Gold Star mother, I don’t expect anything," she said. "My son is the one who gave his life, not me."
Leo Shane III covers Congress, Veterans Affairs and the White House for Military Times. He can be reached at
Leo covers Congress, Veterans Affairs and the White House for Military Times. He has covered Washington, D.C. since 2004, focusing on military personnel and veterans policies. His work has earned numerous honors, including a 2009 Polk award, a 2010 National Headliner Award, the IAVA Leadership in Journalism award and the VFW News Media award.