A Marine wife whose 6-year-old daughter was sexually abused by a Marine Corps colonel told lawmakers the military is failing victims.
“Had my husband and I stayed silent, our case would never have been brought,” said Adrian Perry, who testified before the Senate Armed Services personnel subcommittee hearing Thursday examining child abuse and intimate partner violence in the military.
Witnesses testified about problems with investigations, cumbersome processes, lack of proper resources for victims, and communication issues between military and civilian authorities.
A Defense Department official told those witnesses their testimony was “heartwrenching and deeply concerning.”
As she began her testimony, Stephanie Barna, senior adviser to the undersecretary of defense for personnel and readiness, turned to the witnesses and said, “I can assure you the department will work with this committee to be responsive to the issues you’ve raised in your testimony.”
Adrian Perry said Daniel Hunter Wilson wasn’t detained until five months after the incident involving her daughter, which occurred when the Perry family had visited the colonel’s home. She cited problems with the Naval Criminal Investigative Service’s investigation of her daughter’s case ― noting, for example, that they scoured the Perrys’ personal electronic devices but failed to acquire devices belonging to the accused colonel.
The investigators did not investigate Wilson’s past, she said, adding that the Marine Corps didn’t follow through to address previous reports of a sexual nature against Wilson.
If they had, she said, “Wilson would never have been able to take our child’s innocence from her.”
'She kept crying and I ... slapped her across the head, which in turn, made her more upset, and then I lost control ... I began to shake her; I threw her onto the bed, where she rolled toward the window hitting her head against the windowsill ... I then lifted her up ... threw her into her crib ... she began crying even more ... I dropp(ed) her to the floor and I sat on her then I got up and laid on top of her releasing the full weight of my body on her ... (she) kept crying, so then I picked her up off the floor, placing both of her arms at her side and 'bear hugged' her very tightly, where her cry became faint.'
Wilson ultimately was found guilty and sentenced to 5 1/2 years in prison.
The family was unable to access mental health counseling resources until their civilian victims legal counsel, working pro bono, “worked tirelessly to find a therapist that would see our entire family,” she said. “Where was the military when we needed them? What do the survivors who don’t have the resources we had do?”
There were problems with other resources, too. The Perrys had to drive their daughter two hours to get the needed pediatric forensics exam because there were no such specialists in the area near Camp Lejeune, North Carolina.
‘THE CYCLE OF ABUSE WILL CONTINUE’
Medically retired Army Staff Sgt. Merci McKinley also told Senators about the cumbersome processes and barriers she encountered when seeking help after being assaulted in January 2015 by a service member with whom she was having a relationship. McKinley outlined the time-consuming, difficult process to get a civilian protective order for her safety because of the injuries she received.
Ultimately, she was advised to report the case to military officials, and the military took charge of the investigation. Charges were filed against the service member, but he was administratively separated instead of going to court-martial.
“The key takeaway from this process is what I had to do and the effort it took on my part,” McKinley said. “Not all survivors of intimate partner violence are the same. If we go forward expecting this to continue to be the process in any way, shape or form, justice could be delayed or even denied.
“The cycle of abuse will continue because some will compare the amount of effort it takes and, in an attempt to compartmentalize and rationalize the abuse, as a means to stay in the situation.”
While encouraging efforts have been made to prevent family violence in the military, “I believe more can be and must be done for our military and their families, especially the children who are the most vulnerable,” said Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand, D-N.Y., ranking member of the subcommittee. “For too long, intimate partner violence and child abuse have been characterized as a family issue to be kept private. As a result, the violence and trauma of abuse has lived in the shadows.
“It is time we shine a light on these experiences.”
Sen. Thom Tillis, R-N.C., and chairman of the subcommittee, said the hearing “is not a once-and-done moment. It’s a process.”
He told the witnesses, “We’re going to do everything we can to make sure your stories are becoming fewer and fewer, until we can get them to be none.”